GREGORY OF NYSSA
Saint Gregory of Nyssa, On Virginity, Chapter 23, 368 AD
http://www.ccel.org/ccel/schaff/npnf205.ix.ii.ii.xxiv.html, Gregory of Nyssa: Dogmatic Treatises, Etc.: On Virginity: Chapter XXIII.:
Hence, too, those who “creep into the houses”; and again others who suppose virtue to consist in savage bearishness, and have never known the fruits of long-suffering and humility of spirit. Who could enumerate all the pitfalls into which any one might slip, from refusing to have recourse to men of godly celebrity? Why, we have known ascetics of this class who have persisted in their fasting even unto death, as if “with such sacrifices God were well pleased1516;” and, again, others who rush off into the extreme diametrically opposite, practising celibacy in name only and leading a life in no way different from the secular; for they not only indulge in the pleasures of the table, but are openly known to have a woman in their houses1517; and they call such a friendship a brotherly affection, as if, forsooth, they could veil their own thought, which is inclined to evil, under a sacred term. It is owing to them that this pure and holy profession of virginity is “blasphemed amongst the Gentiles1518.”
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1517 See Chrysostom, Lib. Πρὸς (motion from / to a place) τοὺς (the) συνεισάκτους (introduced together / enter together) ἔχοντας (to have / to possess / to bear).
I guess “virginity” just meant “not married” in that day.
Original source:
http://members.ozemail.com.au/~moorea/agapetae.html, The Agapetae, “Greg of Nyssa De Virg c 23”